Week 17

View from the houseboats

Theo is back at preschool! All things considered it’s gone quite well. Only one really rough drop off, and successful use of things to look forward to negotiate leaving for school the other days (e.g. we promised an after-school hike one day, mac & cheese one day, and a “prize” for wearing his mask all day). We tried to keep his morning routine the same so we are leaving for school at 9 when we used to leave for hiking.

(Re)Learnings and observations

Allowing space for emotional reactions: Any change is really throwing me for a loop right now! I had strong emotional reactions to Theo’s return to school and news that the move of our offices from Laurel Heights to Mission Bay is coming as soon as August. It was strange to work in the morning, to attend meetings that I have not been able to attend for months, to both more zoom meetings and more quiet. I’m again attending to my emotional reactions and considering what data they give me (e.g. maybe I should skip some of the meetings).

Time to think: Since I gave myself a (mild?) case of self-diagnosed plantar fasciitis for the first time in my life, I’ve decided to do more cycling this week. I discovered that the upside is I don’t multitask, so my brain has a chance to actually think. It’s very novel. When I run I listen to podcasts or call someone; when I hike with Theo he asked me to tell him stories. Thinking is what I’ve had the least time to do since February and is much needed.

Attending to what I need right now in mentoring: One of the realizations I had while cycling-thinking was that it was time to re-evaluate what I need right now for mentoring in month 4 of the pandemic and after a year of ongoing changes to my professional setup. I need more practice at thinking about and asking for what I need, and that includes in professional relationships.

On mentoring styles: In the above reflective cycling, I realized I’m likely mentoring people how I want to be mentored, rather than how they want or need to be mentored. I’m going to start asking my mentees if they’d like to change things or things they like about how others mentor them. Relatedly: I saw on Twitter that a parent asks her kids “what do I need to know about you to be a better mom” – I love this! I asked Theo and he told me I should know that he’s Spiderman.

Actions to support Black and other people of color (mostly through research this month)

Gratitude & appreciation

  • Theo returning to preschool!

  • Lots of sun this week

  • It’s been 5 years in California but I finally bought my first pair of Birkenstocks (see above mention of plantar fasciitis)

  • SOM Grand Rounds this week focused a lot on an update on the state of the science of COVID in kids and implications for school openings

  • I gave myself permission to take time from the “work day” to cycle 3 days and hike with Theo after school 1 day

  • I didn’t try to do much writing or thinking or analysis of my research projects this week – it’s annoying me to not make research progress but I need to make healing/emotional progress too and tend to multiple professional relationships and reconnect to various academic communities. That’s work too!

  • I invested time in restructuring my work schedule for the coming month(s), investigating new desk/chair options, and other ways to promote productivity.

Things I’m looking forward to

When people who don’t have training in medicine, public health, or epidemiologists just listen to what scientists tell them about methods to reduce risk

Things we made

Sam made another Kevin Forkish sourdough, yogurt, and these sourdough rosemary crackers that I immediately devoured

Update on goals from last week

Turns out I did none of these and these are my goals for next week.

  • Code another 2 prion transcripts

  • Create new table shells for prion manuscript

  • Find new target journal for paper after second desk reject (I have some ideas for this one)

As in past weeks, I invite you to report in on your wellbeing, share 1-2 small goals you are hoping to work on next week (especially related to our collaborations, if we have one), and report in on your progress from last week's goals.

Thinking of you and hoping you and your loved ones stay healthy and safe.

Krista

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